The Art of Meeting, Dating, Attracting and Keeping Women You Want in 90 Days without Exchanging "Money", "Good Looks" and "High Social Status" for Love, Affection and Intimacy

"Study hard, get a stable career and make more money"
"Just be good looking"
"Let things fall naturally into place, there's no need to focus too much on it"

How many times have you told yourself or others told you these exact lines through the years?

“I never thought I'd engage a dating and relationships coach… until I needed one”.

Said one of my clients, an aeronautical engineer at Singapore’s national airline.

Through the years, I am usually baffled by the beliefs of most of my male peers that only focused on their academic performance, careers in their twenties and thirties.

Only to figure out one day that they are clueless about dating, relationships... and women...

These days, I like to compare hiring a dating and relationships coach similar to hiring a fitness trainer

If you are trying to get fitter, richer or a six pac abs just to get a girlfriend, attract a girl... then why not just...

GET BETTER WITH WOMEN!?!

This contradiction puzzled me for YEARS as I saw my peers try to earn a better degree, get a better job, kill themselves at the gym or "make more money" all in order to “earn their way into some woman's pants”.

These conventional strategies are not only ineffective but you’ll eventually find out that they are actually not in your direct control

You know what’s in your control?

Yes, that’s YOU. 

Your own actions.

Your ability to understand female psychology

If I told you that it’s possible to walk up to women in any part of the world and get her out on a romantic date, then all the way to a casual or long term relationship without "being good looking", "being rich" or "high social status"…

You aren't going to believe me are you?

Yet it's something that is repeatedly done right today by myself, my team of coaches and my clients even in conservative cultures in Singapore and South East Asia.

I'll let you in on the secrets the dating and relationships advice industry doesn't want you to know...

I am not your charismatic, rich, tall or good looking dating and relationships guru...

In fact:

• I am 167cm tall 
• I am not model like looking 
• I never had a six pac abs in my entire life
• I only graduated from University at 29 years old
• I speak with a slight stutter (introverts and engineers are going to understand)

I also spent the greater part of my twenties on ‘introverted’ pursuits: an accounting major and nerdy topics such search engine optimization...

Yes, your nerdy finance and IT topics... topics that'll bore women to tears on a date

I also didn’t go to an elite school and I didn’t have rich parents (in fact, my family faced bankruptcy once)

Yet... I’m able to meet, date and attract high quality women without:

• Spending hours on ‘cold approaching’
• Splashing thousands of dollars on tables and drinks at nightclubs
• Expensive dinners, gifts and the usual crap that most men go through
• Hoping and praying that my old friends introduce me to someone

I got stuck in my dating life and relationships as a 28 year old founder of my company...

The dating and relationships problems I faced as managing director my own company is different from the ones that I started as a 22 year old...

I started out from zero and crafted out a rockstar like dating life in my earlier twenties...

That lasted for a couple of years but my dating and relationships life soured as I hit my late twenties...

I realized that in my earlier twenties I could get away with rebellious carefree like behaviour... younger women take to that I guess...

However when you are a full grown adult male in your late twenties, thirties and fourt-ies

You can't get away with just running your mouth...

These days, I am a lot older, a lot more experienced and am extremely busy working on my career

I am picky and am only looking to date high quality women

The ones that I am actually excited to go out on with (and perhaps show off to my friends)

The ones that make me feel something

That is because as a career focused entrepreneur, I spend most of my day facing my computer, constructing systems to make the company work and spend my weekends reading nerdy business books, testing out marketing software and etc...

These activities are considered: ‘intellectual’, 'boring' and 'logical' (yes, totally a panties dropper)

If I am being dead honest, I am at the point I can't relate to most of my peers from my schooling days during secondary school, Junior College and University

Much less the female gender...

If you consider yourself as an intelligent man or are working in professions that aren’t highly relatable to women...

I know exactly how you feel

You may be facing similar problems as I faced:

• You work in a mostly male environment 
• You are starved for time and you are picky 
• You saw a decline your dating life in your mid-late twenties to thirties

This is why figuring out dating and relationships IS EVEN MORE SO CRUCIAL as you mature...

Let’s be real...

You are reading this because you are frustrated at your dating life and relationships

You may not have the relationship with your ideal woman

I'm not talking about low quality Tinder dates that match you just to sell you insurance plans, I am talking about the ones that you are excited to go out on a date together

Look...

Years ago when my ex girlfriend broke up with me over text message... that spurred me on a period of obsession for female affection, approval and validation

However, unlike many other ‘dating gurus’, I wasn’t that socially awkward guy that became a rockstar because he put in a lot of effort and changed his life overnight blah blah blah...

I attended the usual Singaporean secondary school, then Junior College (flunked it like crazy)...

I was the everyday average Asian male that had average hobbies such as playing football on the weekends...

However, as life would have it: getting dumped over text message was a huge slap in the face

You are probably read this because you were in a similar position as I was years ago. Something went wrong, and you had to find solutions to get yourself out of that position

I started as a depressed 19 year old whose girlfriend broke up with him two months before military enlistment in Singapore

That led me down to a road of obsession. The obsession to master dating, emotional, relational, social dynamics and male/female psychology.

I even tried pick up artist tactics that got me giggles at best (and many weird stares)

In fact I was once a paid client of this industry 

I invested in a couple of dating coaches myself. 

I learned by approaching one girl at a time, going on one date at a time, one text message at a time, one interaction at a time and one relationship at a time...

I also travelled extensively to both Eastern and Western cultures to test out these concepts...

That led to hundreds of rejections in Singapore and all over the world...

However, slowly but surely, I made progress

Fact: your relationships contribute to a huge part of your happiness

Here's the truth: decades of psychological research that show that our dating lives and romantic relationships contribute a huge portion to our day to day happiness.

It's an area of your life that you need to get GOOD at.

Relationship problems are as real as it gets

If you're human, you probably once felt like your world is ending after a serious breakup or a rejection.

You may find yourself not distracted from important daily tasks like your studies or your work

Then let me ask you, can you really focus at work if your girlfriend or spouse is giving you problems or on the verge of leaving you?

It's not uncommon to devolve into a loner. Your friends then end up leaving you alone because you constantly felt “moppy” about your situation

I don't know about you, I sure as heck could not concentrate during army days after my ex-girlfriend dumped me

I clearly remembered I couldn't do anything...

I had my old Nokia phone in my hands (read: the non camera ones they let you use during basic military training) 

I smashed her number into the Nokia keypad whilst tears rolled down my cheeks... and she refused to pick up... one try after another...

"That was it. It was truly over."

I spent the next 2 years depressed, lonely, in a slump and painted myself angry and frustrated victim

These relationship problems are real... and let's be honest here...

Most of our friends don't really talk about it either

That's because most men like to pretend that they are okay...

However deep down... they burning inside

Here is why...

Yes, many men out there have girlfriends and wives... however they are still leading lives of quiet desperation...

One of the most common problems I get from friends (even well to do entrepreneurs) is that they are still unable to date a woman that they really want...

So they settle thinking what if?

I am not talking about the ones that you pay hundreds of dollars to an agency and they show up way below your expectations…

I am talking about the ones that make you feel nervous and yet excited when you’re with her. 

• Your ideal woman that is going to be the mother of your children
• The girl next door 
• Your University crush
• The ones that make your heart flutter

Some of you reading this may be stuck in a dead end relationship, letting it drag on for years... and it’s secretly gnawing at you inside...

Or maybe you spent your entire life focusing on University grades or your career and you saw your friends getting attached through the years, one by one... 

You start to convince yourself that you didn’t really care...

Only for such issues to come rushing back to you today

For the average Asian male... that is what we are told to do: study hard and expect everything else to naturally work out...

However I guess things don't "simply work out" after all right?

I understand it’s not entirely your fault, after all… 

If you were an introvert that prefers playing computer games, staying indoors, you probably didn’t get many opportunities to interact with women

Most of us (especially Asian Men) aren't equipped with dating, relational and emotional skillsets to take control of this area of our lives

Hence at one point of our lives we found yourselves in a position when we finally confessed to a girl we fancy... and she awkwardly tells us that she only sees us as a... friend...

For most Asian men (read: I had caucasian clients as well, but for I’m generalizing for brevity’s sake), your parents probably told you to be a ‘good boy’ and told you not to interact with people or talk to strangers since young.

In your romantic interactions, you may find yourself too sensitive to rejection: you're afraid that others are going to start gossiping about it or make fun of you.

The risk of rejection is more painful than not trying at all

You rationalize... it’s better to stick to your own friends and all the good women are already taken.

If you're talking to just one girl, you may worry too much about it 'if I took a risk, I may lose her'

Or maybe you can’t just seem to get her to reply you on the text

Even if you do, she replies with one sentence boring answer that leaves you thinking if she is ‘playing hard to get’

On dates... you stare at her blankly and you fail time and time again to take the interactions beyond a platonic level.

The truth is that you lack a system: a step by step method to get women and relationships you want

One of the BIGGEST problems you probably face is always waiting for someone that knows someone to introduce you to that someone.

If you're in your later twenties on thirties, your friends may be in long term relationships and you can’t go out with friends to meet women. 

Or even worst, what if all your friends have dead-end social lives and call you ‘superficial’ and ‘fake’ for wanting to you to expand your dating opportunities?

Ultimately, you’re not solving the root of the problem: the ability to control your interactions with women

I'm sure you found yourself thinking to yourself: ‘that person seems nice’.

Then you end up telling yourself ‘she's probably with someone else’. You then walk away with excuses and fear of judgment from others.

Or maybe you don’t want to date your colleagues. Or maybe you don’t want to ‘shit where you eat’. Or maybe, you just came off a horrendous long term relationship, perhaps a divorce even and you can’t seem to get your feet up.

Or maybe you have tried some slimy pick up artist methods and creep-ed everyone around you out...

Let's be honest to ourselves, do you have a step by step system to

• The inner mindsets, personality traits and embodiment of an attractive high value Asian male
• The dating skillsets to meet high quality women anywhere, anytime
• The dating, emotional and relational skillsets to create comfort and emotional connection with a woman
• The dating, emotional and relational skillsets to generate intense sexual tension between you and her
• Turn ability to turn first dates into a casual or romantic one by your choice
• The dating, emotional and relational to make bedroom intimacy a win-win for both you and her
• Create a lifestyle that attracts high quality women into your life 
• Create, build and maintain healthy, passionate relationships EVEN after the honey moon dating phase
• Self develop your personality into a naturally attractive individual so that your girlfriend/ spouse stays loyal, devoted and attracted to you.

This isn't just about dating and relationships... 

If you haven't noticed by now, it's not just about getting a girlfriend or creating great relationships...

It's about long term behavioural change.

Take billionaire, Warren Buffet quote for an example, he has outrightly stated:

"If you can't communicate, it's like winking at a girl in the dark — nothing happens. You can have all the brainpower in the world, but you have to be able to transmit it"

- CEO, Berkshire Hathaway, Warren Buffet

Today, I am the managing director of my own company and generated hundreds of thousands of dollars...

How did I get here?

I put a good portion of my success down to my ability to communicate my ideas eloquently

This is why I implore you to think about this life-changing journey

It isn't only getting the women you want, but also building the social, emotional and relational skillsets that’ll pour into other areas of your life

You can take a leap of faith as I did years ago

Stop feeling disappointed for not focusing on this area of your life earlier. You are never too old to start meeting, dating and attract your ideal women...

Look, I am not here to impact 96% of you...

That's because MOST men read self-help books one after another, listen to one podcast after another... or pay some life coach that get you do some kumbaya rain dance in some seminar room...

They end up in the same spot after DECADES...

The top performers understand the TRUE VALUE of working alongside a NO B.S. COACH...

Someone that has:

• Had hundreds of interactions with beautiful women 
• Helped clients get hundreds of matches, dates and intimate moments

Our programs are only for what I consider top performers

Top performers and high value men invest readily in themselves: in their fashion, in coaches, in programs and in self education

They also know the COST of not getting this handled:

• The cost of a divorce settlement, depending if it's contested: 10k – 30k
• The cost of engagement rings: 1k-5k 
• The cost of wedding banquets: 30k 
• Not finding your ideal woman to share your life with, that's the saddest really

Here is how my team of coaches and I differ from everyone else:

• My team and I are probably a tiny tiny tiny percentage of Asians in the entire South East Asia that can do this dating and relationships thing proficiently
• My programs implementation based: stop sitting in seminar rooms, start implementing and getting real life results
• You are surrounded by like-minded peers in our private coaching community where you can network, progress together and go out to improve together

So finally... stop f*cking procrastinating and ask yourself...

• How many expensive dinners have you been on? Expensive gifts, flowers have you bought?
• How much have you spent on online dating applications, matchmaking agencies and dating agencies?
• How much did you spend on your bar drinks, bottle service during last week? … the past month? … the past year? Only to go home empty handed?
• How about the $300 designer shoes, the $3,000 tailored suit, or that $10,000 watch? How many women came chasing after you because of those?
• How about that $100,000 car you bought, that downpayment for that house... only to find your relationships falling part?

The moral of the story:

There are both time and monetary cost for not getting this area of your life handled...

However if you are open minded and ready to take the leap of faith...

Then Join the Hall of Fame of Success Stories!